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Disclaimer
: People are always asking for my advice, whether it is on relationships, real estate, finance, clothing, etc,. I hold no degree, other than life experience and I make no claim to being an expert. But if you'd like to ask me a question and get my common sense point of view, please write to me. I will respond online so others can view the question and answer. Please use an alias for anonymity. Looking forward to helping all that I can. -- Darlena

Questions & Answers

1) I am a 29 yr old man who just got out of a 4 1/2 yr marriage that my wife cheated on me and is now e ...

2) I met a woman who is considerably younger than me (I think she's in her early 20's) at a bar when I ...

3) Hi Dar, I'm a 32 single female and would love to get out more meet new friends, and potentially ...

4) Hello Dar, I am 31, 6'2, blonde haired, and blue eyed. I am educated, and I owned my own very suc ...

5) I am an attractive single woman 50+...where do I meet 50+ singles in san diego??

6) I am 34 year man..tall handsome and all..but working to much..I need a good girl to drag me away fro ...

7) Hey Dar, I am Extremely shy. Dont dance. Iam going through a divorce and have not been single for ov ...

8) I am 34 years old no children, no job, no money, degree, no confidence, no friends no hope,and bored ...

9) Why am i here i have none of the following things husband, job, children, degree, friends, no self e ...

10) i'm just looking for fun. im single and i love meeting new people. as am new in san diego where shou ...

11) Hello I'm a woman 50yrs old mex-woman looking for my soulmate, but all replies I get is from younge ...

12) I AM A 40 YR OLD MAN WHO HAS NO JOB AND NEVER KISSED A GIRL. WHATS A GOOD WAY TO MEET WOMEN BESIDES ...

13)  I've been married for some time. Now I'm single, so just how do I get a woman to go to bed with me ...

14) I am an extremley shy guy and I have no experiance with girls and I don't have any idea how to talk ...

15) Why is it that these events are for 30 / 40+ singles yet the music is geared towards 20 year old hip ...

16) hi Dar, i just recently got out of a relationship with my daughters mom. we fight a lot so i had ...

17) hi Darlena, i was reading one of your advice no#10. a woman who has been dating a man for 7 months ...

18) Dear Darlena, I being divorced for six months. I ended a marriage of 27 years to my high school swe ...

19) I am a 40 something woman that has been single for about five years. I have been told that I am attr ...

20) are there good guys that attend these functions? im recently single and want to start dating again ...

21) Dar, My wife of 8 years (10 total) passed away in January rather suddenly and I'm looking into wa ...

22) I was in a relationship for about 10 mths and he decided he needed time and he was feeling like he w ...

23) I have been dating this girl for 9 months now and she wont commit to me. She keeps wanting to see m ...

24) Ok I moved to San Diego from the east coast in Jan. 2004. These past few years I have been working ...

25) Dear Dar, How can a 34 year old man who has no children and has never been married or had a girlfri ...

26) I am a 45 year old single woman living in Los Angeles. I have lived here all my life and have never ...

27) Hi, I'm a 32 yr. Old man who is a bus driver for greyhound, my question is how do I go about trying ...

28) if your in a long term relationship and the women from day one is constantly accusing of things such ...

29) I have known this guy for some years, but just recently starting hanging out with him more and doing ...

30) I have tried internet dating and it seems that the men just want to jump right in bed. What is it t ...

31) Dar, OK seriously, I'm female in the over 50 category, more active than majority of 40 year olds, b ...

32) I've lived in San Diego for about three years now and haven't really met anyone..female or male. I'm ...

33) I have been to a couple of your dances....everything thing seems well done except....the music shoul ...

34) Do you have other events besides these? I am single and new in town, Just curious,what age group at ...

35) I keep running into girls who have boyfriends! What is the best way to avoid this and find some att ...

36) Due to my life circumstances, I have little experience in meeting women in a "non-work" environment ...

37) Hello Darlena, My name is Donald.I'm a 63 yr old Divorced White gentleman. My question is; Are ther ...

38)  hi darlena, how are you? my name is sunshine59 i am from san diego not by birth i live in san dieg ...

39) My situation is not unique but it is unusual, I am in a strictly platonic marriage with a woman who ...

40) How do you know if someone likes you and is the one for you for a long term relationship?

41) I was wondering if there is a dating class for those that have not dated for a while (I should say d ...

42) I have been dating someone for tree years that is merried, he said he is going to leave his wife, bu ...

43) Do you have parties for singles over 45?

44) I'm a man, 47, and want to meet a girl in her early 30s who wants to have a few kids and having no l ...

45) I am a 20 year old female and I live on my own and I'm going to collage and getting my life started. ...

46) Hi Dar Yes another shy one. But only when it comes to going to places alone. Could you please acco ...

47) hey Ive been single for a while now. I had a gorgeous girlfriend a few years ago and cheated on her. ...

48) I am a 40 year old Man and dating a women 13 years younger and then me, and I am scared to go to the ...

49) I have been single for a year now, I was engaged and things didn't work out. I have had some really ...

50) Hi Dar! I saw your link on the back window. Of a westbound Cadillac and it sparked my interest. Wha ...

51) Dear Dar, Do you have a good amount of African-American men over 40 who attend your parties? Whe ...

52) DearDar, First of all would liek to mention that English is my second language. I am 31 year old s ...

53) hey dar, I am 50 years young, male, yoga person, private chef and holistic healer, to name just a f ...

54) I am 23 years old guy ( Indian ) and i recently moved to San diego (Balboa)people are friendly and g ...

55) where in san diego over 45 can i meet single men

56) Dar, Per your e-mails,you have recommended to several woman over 50 that they date younger men. ...

57) 36 year old single father, I am looking to get back into the dating scene and find someone with the ...

58) I am a 52 year youthful gentleman. What is the average age of the women who attend your partys?